Nor can you round them up and take them out for dinner together like a Moonie wedding; the deal is that the godparent-godchild relationship is individual. Husband & I were also God-Parents (as a couple) to a beautiful little boy, but we are now Guardians of him. To be a godparent, a person must be one “who leads a life of faith in keeping with the function to be taken on” (CIC 874 §1). at least one godparent in each set(if you are having say, 2 couples as godparents) must be catholic and you can have as many as you like. Hi, Show less. Those who serve as sponsors (a man and a woman together are commonly referred to as “godparents”) must, if married, be married in the Catholic Church. We don't have many other familiy to ask and our friends (who are perfectly lovely people) not anyone I feel I want to ask to take on the role of godparents to my children! Whether you're Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Sikh, or any other religion, make like-minded friends and discuss religious issues here. ? It’s helpful to look at these before the day, so read on to find out more about these promises and how to discover more about what they mean. I am a Godmother to a wonderful little Girl, and my husband isn't her God-Father. EXCEPTION: Canon Law # 872 states: " Insofar as possible, a person to be baptized is to be given a sponsor who assists an adult in Christian initiation or together with the parents presents an infant for baptism. it depends on the church as we are methodist & only 2 of the 8 godparents acually attend church & ONE is a semi practicing catholic the other 5 either havent been christened OR non church goers … How do you think about the answers? As a member of a Lutheran church, a god parent must be baptized themselves. When it’s time for the baptism the pastor will call you forward. No, the Godparents do not have to be married. As they are already making promises on behalf of the child, to have another person making promises on their behalf confuses who is making promises on behalf of who! Dear Mr. Fecteau, Peace in Christ! And, not having actually birthed the things, you are allowed to have favourites. The godparents will usually sit at the front of the church with the parents and child. Yep, Godparents have to be christened. Do Godparents Have To Be Married in the Church? --Also I wasn't the same religion as either sets of the parents. 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We want to have our baby boy (due on 8 December) baptised but having a hard time thinking of who to ask to be Godparents. My food stamp caseworker wouldn't return my calls so how do I report her? One Of the godfathers doesn't really count though, its his elder brother. It means more than religion I think. At the moment I only have one female and one male who I would like to ask to be godparents. DS - 3 1/2 years DD - 9months 3. One married couple, my single best friend, and my husbands best friend (who's now our brother in law, he married hubby's sister), My son has 5 Godmothers and 2 godfathers. There is a risk I end up with even more than two. My twins have the same 4 godparents each. 874 §1. I know some of the christenings ive been to have had only two godparents. hello, i am catholic and have had all my kids christened. If you have really close friends and family then I'm sure that you would have lots of suitable people to ask - but unfortunately we don't. 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